"but switch it around to how their *particular* mental/emotional/psychological situation means that they *have* to touch people, and not allowing them to do so is ableist against them."
I don't know if that is the case here, but I am 100% ran into that here. Also people who are very nosy and say it's a 'tick' and they need to know for ND reasons so they can properly classify people in their mind. Yeah, that is a THEM problem not a ME problems. It is weird how you'd think tumblr-esque crows would be a certain way, but a lot of them don't have the most basic concept of boundaries at all... no even a touch
It's frustrating. Spaces that should be good... are just trainwrecks... and sometimes I've put up with those trainwrecks when I should run screaming
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I don't know if that is the case here, but I am 100% ran into that here. Also people who are very nosy and say it's a 'tick' and they need to know for ND reasons so they can properly classify people in their mind. Yeah, that is a THEM problem not a ME problems. It is weird how you'd think tumblr-esque crows would be a certain way, but a lot of them don't have the most basic concept of boundaries at all... no even a touch
It's frustrating. Spaces that should be good... are just trainwrecks... and sometimes I've put up with those trainwrecks when I should run screaming